Dear Nurse Heartburn,
Online meeting seems so cold and impersonal. I am attractive and like to flirt but I can’t get any responses. Has social media become Robotic?
Dear Flirty Francis,
Most Onliners want to understand how to flirt, get noticed, be considered attractive, and even be seduced. Whether we are single and dating or married and relating, attraction is important. But this is a complicated process. When was the last time you considered the fundamentals of attraction? Are there specific tactics or behavior for one to use to get noticed?
Top of the list is having a good appearance. This matters big time! Don’t obsess… but a shower, clean hair and teeth, and some stylish clothes usually make the first impression.
Be Positive- Personality is a big player towards attraction. Being thoughtful, sympathetic and having good manners goes a long way. Toss in optimism and funny, success is just around the corner.
Get Noticed- Be social, join activities you enjoy, and build a nice social circle. Make eye contact, smile, and have a flirty touch.
Be true to yourself and your profile. A Zen saying: “Leap and the net shall appear.”
Happy dating and relating.