Dear Nurse Heartburn,
The first date was OK, not spectacular, just so-so. No red flags but I would like to see him again. What are the “rules” when 3 days disappear without a call or text?
Dear Ms. Rule,
RULES??? What did your gut feelings tell you? Was there eye contact? What did his body language say? You are clueless about body language? Buy a book! It will be an epic, cheap investment and a bible for future dates. Invite a few friends over, uncork your favorite vino and go at it.
Was he on time for your date? Did he answer questions the same way as he did online? Did you feel comfortable with him? Did his appearance match his profile photo?
If you still want a second date, I vote to call him before a week goes by. Maybe suggest a different setting. Show your uniqueness by considering something he seemed to enjoy. Most communities have numerous free events or maybe opt for a sporting event. Even better if you want to attend the choice.
It’s been said: Go out on a limb. That’s where the fruit is.
Happy dating and relating